The author acknowledges and appreciates the ardent support received during her health challenges. The sources of support ranged from close relations to an extended community and even corporate backing. This support helped, not just in her personal arena, but also in turning her experiences into a book with divine undertones.
Special gratitude was extended to Mary Reynics, who played a pivotal role in revealing the presence of the divine in her life. This spiritual guidance was key in battling cancer and emerging victorious, with her story serving as a beacon of God's glory.
She also paves way to express a sense of gratitude towards her North Carolina community besides close family. Embracing her unconditionally, they served as a bedrock of love, support and hospitality, making her journey much more bearable.
As Cynthia Marshall was caught up in the joy of the holiday season, a fateful call from Dr. Tyner turned her life upside down. He informs her of her cancer diagnosis, leaving Cynthia feeling disoriented and shaken initially. But her mother's strong faith acts as a beacon of hope, reinforcing the belief that Cynthia's illness is a conduit for God's miraculous power.
Her fight against cancer has not been a private one. News of her diagnosis started circulating among peers and well-wishers, but this didn't faze Cynthia. As a prominent figure, she courageously navigates through her medical journey, teaching valuable lessons to her observers in the process.
Undeterred by her situation, Cynthia uses her past experiences as a torchbearer in life to strengthen her resolve. She sees her illness as a new chapter, a continuation of her tryst with destiny. Despite feelings of confusion and helplessness, Cynthia decides to focus on the silver lining and how she can still make a positive difference in the world.
Emotional, mental, and spiritual wellness was a given for Marshall. However, he saw a need to enhance his physical health, opting for a colonoscopy.
During his health check, a tumor surfaced. Earlier symptoms included swollen lymph nodes, weight loss, and back pain, all of which didn't halt his work or birthday celebrations.
Facing the challenge, Marshall asserted his power and demanded immediate surgery, showing incredible resilience amid resistance from the medical staff.
Despite the urgency of his situation, Marshall stayed patient, waiting for a surgery slot. The news of a confirmed date brought relief and gratitude.
Carolyn Estelle came from humble beginnings, but these shaped her into a strong, spiritual woman. She was raised in a rough neighborhood in Easter Hill, deemed the 'projects', but for Carolyn, it was a step up from her mother's past. Much of her spiritual strength came directly from her mother's teachings and power of prayer.
The household was not without its challenges, though. Her father displayed abusive tendencies towards Carolyn's mother and occasionally, the children. Nonetheless, Carolyn's mother stood strong, never complaining nor speaking ill of her husband. She remained the backbone of the family, working multiple jobs to ensure her children led disciplined, structured lives.
Ultimately, despite growing up in difficult circumstances, Carolyn and her siblings felt safe and loved, thanks to their mother's ceaseless efforts. They learned valuable lessons on the power of prayer and living for a higher purpose. These teachings have stayed with Carolyn throughout her life, shaping her into the resilient woman she is.
Cynthia Marshall reveals her colon cancer diagnosis to her colleagues, asking them to keep moving forward. Despite severe post-surgery pain, her strong resolve shines as she attends her son's piano recital, going against the doctor's advice.
Marshall highlights the healing effect of her church community throughout her ordeal. Their spiritual succor empowers her to stay resilient and hopeful during these testing times.
Amid this, her joyous Christmas celebration with family and a picturesque white Christmas offer a brief respite. The wait for the pathology results, however, provokes a gnawing anxiety.
The worst fears are confirmed when the surgeon communicates the cancerous nature of the tumor, necessitating immediate chemotherapy. Nevertheless, Cynthia stays unwavering in her faith and clings on to the comfort it provides in these challenging times.
When a young man named Michael threatened the narrator's life, the father's instinct kicked in and he had to defend his family. Despite the terrifying encounter, it did not bring unwanted attention.
The narrator's mother firmly believed in the power of education and structure. The hope was that it would offer a way out of their rough neighborhood. The narrator found her stride in school, enjoying the joy of learning.
The narrator gave credit to the public school teachers who made classrooms not just a place for learning, but also a safe haven. These educators fuelled the narrator's passion for gaining knowledge.
After the shooting, a short break from school was necessary. However, the narrator missed the classroom premise and the company of friends. Officer Prater stepped in to ensure the ongoing safety of the narrator. This noble act didn't go unnoticed, as the narrator appreciated the officer's support immensely.
Cynt and her husband Kenny navigate through the tough process of informing their children about her cancer diagnosis. Their daughter Shirley's reaction includes shock and fear, while their son Anthony remains hopeful.
'The posse', Cynt's supportive group of friends, offer critical emotional and material assistance during this timeframe. They extend their prayers, gather needed cancer research, and aid in outlining the next measures in her therapy.
Cynt's determination and optimistic attitude are driven by her history of surmounting life's obstacles. Relying on diligent hard work, steadfast prayer, and her innate strength, she prepares to confront the hurdle of cancer head-on.
Amidst troubling family circumstances, the mother prioritized education fervently. Even though the risk of violence loomed, important milestones like her son's graduation were not compromised. Education was seen as an escape route from their threatening situation.
Throughout the dire situation, mother and children were constantly harassed and threatened by the furious father. Finding temporary refuge at a friendly relative's place, they endured a persecuting summer, where even public spaces were not safe.
Despite the father stealing their possessions and resorting to scaring tactics, the family persevered. Anchored by the mother's determined spirit, they powered through adversity. The dedicated mother valiantly maintained the peace and stability in their lives, focusing on the children's well-being and education.
Marshall's experience with cancer brings a tapestry of mixed emotions. The support from her network comes as a soothing relief. But, the inevitable beginning of chemotherapy and the implant surgery she endured for it leaves her engulfed in fear.
Her treatment journey gets colored by moments of gratitude for loved ones lending their ears and hearts. This companionship helps her go through her health upheavals and decipher the convoluted healthcare her situation necessitates.
Chemotherapy, with its overpowering effects, underscores the importance of unstoppable support from friends. Their commitment to her reinforces the power of accepting help during trials and reaffirms the essence of a strong support system.
At a DECA event, a compelling encounter unfolds between our central character and Kenny, a seemingly charismatic young man. Her strong focus on education makes her indifferent to Kenny’s pursuit, demonstrating her unwavering dedication to her life plans.
Despite Kenny making attempts to be closer, his advances are dismissed. Her unwavering commitment is apparent as she sets her sights on her engineering program, ensuring no possible distractions could steer her off course.
The narrative takes a beautiful turn as the previously distant individuals reconcile. Kenny, once engaged to another, rekindles his bond with our central figure. After an unexpected graduation day reunion, their relationship yields to marriage, marking a poignant reflection of persistence and enduring love.
In this captivating part of her story, Cynt Marshall navigates her challenging journey of chemotherapy for cancer. Her strong will can be seen as she terms the cancer treatment center as a 'chemo clubhouse' and considers herself part of a team battling for their lives.
Cynt faced serious hardships during the initial phase of chemotherapy, with nausea, fatigue and reduced white blood cells being prevalent. Yet, she finds solace in the prayers and support of loved ones, showcasing her gratitude for the same.
Overcoming each struggle, she does not lose sight of her goal to complete the intimidating span of 12 rounds of chemotherapy. This shows Cynt's resolve and the value she places on her profession and work-life balance throughout the harrowing ordeal.
Influenced by Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., the ethos of service was embedded in the author's upbringing. Her parents’ teachings focused on positive change for humanity, regardless of personal struggles.
Battles against workplace discrimination were constant, especially as a Black woman. Yet, she stood unwavered, adapting and blooming while underlining the significance of helping others.
Her commitment to comprehend her team's experiences—like attending a pole-climbing school—underscores her dedication to effective leadership and service.
Despite challenges, her unwavering devotion to service led to numerous career advancements and the ability to positively impact as many lives as possible.
During her third round of cancer treatment, Marshall learned to not take anything for granted. Being active and staying hydrated were essential for ensuring the chemotherapy worked efficiently. Despite initial hesitation, she chose to get a shot to help boost her white blood cell count, a big decision marking her dedication towards her health journey.
Getting used to the effects of chemotherapy, such as loss of taste buds and energy, prompted self-reflection. Coping with intense side effects and adjusting to her new routine was difficult, but she managed it gracefully. Her resilience and determination were bolstered by the overwhelming love and support from her family and friends.
Marshall's battling spirit was noticeable during her chemo sessions. She utilized this time not just for her treatment but also to advocate for her cause, even showing up at the North Carolina legislature with her chemo pump on display. Despite facing hurdles, she continued to make a difference, reflecting her unwavering resolve amidst adversity.
Cancer has become a daunting adversary for Cynt Marshall, engaging her in a tough fourth round of treatment. Despite the hardships, her enthusiasm remains unscathed. She endures the side effects of chemotherapy with heightened optimism, cherishing each day as a victory.
In the midst of her distressing journey, Cynt visualizes her struggle with cancer as a 'virtual thunderstorm', a crisis which ominously started on the day she turned 51. However, she subtly manages to find a silver lining, interpreting these trials as heaven-sent for some divine intent.
Transforming the generally gloomy ambience of the infusion suite into a lively escapade, Cynt oscillates in the role of a party organizer, creating a sports-themed event. Maintaining her spirits high by celebrating chemo day, she underscores her belief in embracing life and spreading positivity, even during the darkest times.
An expectant mother finds herself on bed rest during her fifth pregnancy. Despite all preventive measures, she gives premature birth. She names her baby Karolyn, lovingly referred to as 'Special K'.
Soon after birth, Karolyn faces numerous health complications. Despite numerous surgeries, her condition deteriorates. Despite their struggle, the mother tries to be a beacon of support for other NICU parents.
Ultimately, despite the valiant fight, Special K passes away. The grieving mother organizes a funeral, insists on carrying the casket, demonstrating a mother's fierce love for her child. A quiet home awaits her return, triggering an emotional breakdown.
Cynt Marshall's journey through cancer treatment includes wrangling with severe side effects from chemotherapy drugs, specifically Oxaliplatin. Her doctor steps in, allowing her a respite from this drug to aid her recovery. Despite feeling nauseous, she understands the vital role of nutrition and continues to eat. Comfort comes in unusual forms, like prayer blankets from supportive friends.
Marshall reveals her innovative 'DNA Plan' focusing on three pillars - devotion, nutrition, and activity. Each plays a critical part in her healing and sets an example for broader health management strategies. Experiencing exclusion and misunderstanding when she attempts to return to work, she emphasizes the importance of self-care and a supportive and understanding working environment.
A colleague's thoughtful email forces Marshall to evaluate the strain of maintaining career drive while coping with physical weakness. It helps her shift her outlook and accepts the need for her body to rest and recover. She introduces creative coping techniques, finding solace in homemade soup and snug socks, signaling the crucial aspect of adapting to a new normal throughout cancer treatment.
Dealing with grief, Michelle buried herself in work. She wasn't too keen on adoption, a thought her husband, Kenny, often brought up. Yet, the efforts of county social workers and Kenny's persistence eventually brought her around.
Upon meeting Anthony, a boy on the verge of being shifted to a group home after many foster homes, Michelle felt compelled to act. Despite his troubled past, she and Kenny decided to welcome him into their family.
Navigating motherhood, especially with a child bearing scars of neglect, was a new challenge. Michelle found divine guidance in her quest. She and Kenny reassured Anthony of their unyielding love and his place in their family, which helped him find comfort at last.
The sudden change drove them to learn how to be parents overnight. Despite these unique shared challenges, they found beauty in their journey and learned that sometimes, the best plans are the ones we don't make.
Cynt is halfway through her challenging chemotherapy journey and is responding better than predicted, even resuming some normal activities. She's upheld by an outpouring of support from her nearest and dearest, which powers her positivity.
Her sixth round has been a steep climb as it marked a return to the hardcore treatment regime. Despite this, Cynt holds onto her resolution to keep pursuing the path prescribed by her doctors, fuelled by numerous prayers and uplifting visits.
The intensity of the sixth round results in a concerning decrease in her white blood cell count. Her doctors suggest a break to recover, but she's strong-willed and ready for the next round. Cynt is becoming an inspiring embodiment of resilience.
Kenny, her husband, is left anxiety-ridden about their family's future and conflicted with his anguish as he watches Cynt bear the brunt of the illness. It's a rollercoaster of emotions, but Cynt's resilience remains the beacon guiding them through this storm.
Meeting Dr. Eisenbeis, Marshall affirms her belief in miracles and declares her intent to conquer cancer. She draws strength from miraculous experiences in her life including a healed bleeding ulcer post prayer session.
When her husband Kenny loses his physical abilities due to viral encephalitis, she refuses to accept it as their fate. Choosing prayer over despair, she attends a church convention despite hospital staff's disapproval, leaving her son with family and fervently praying for her husband's well-being.
Miraculously, Kenny regains his ability to walk and talk astonishingly leading to an unexpected call from the hospital. Found soaking in the sun outdoors, Kenny's recovery albeit slow is remarkable with regained speech and mobility, minimal brain damage astounds everyone.
Marshall reveals her journey through chemotherapy, touching on the harsh side effects and struggles. Her story shows the power of community, with significant support from friends, loved ones, and even strangers. A standout moment is her speech at a university event, where students donated their hair for cancer patients. The solidarity seen at this event, including a surprise appearance from her son, brings Marshall unexpected comfort.
Throughout her challenging journey, Marshall leans into her faith. Believing in a divine purpose behind her illness brings a form of solace. She also cherishes the moments of rest, light, and refreshment she finds in her relationship with God. This profound reliance on faith provides her with energy and positivity in combating the difficulties of her medical journey.
Marshall was poised for a notable promotion within her corporation. However, undercurrents of expectation came with this offer. Her boss implied she needed to change her appearance, behavior, and even her name. Yet, she stood her ground, valuing authenticity above all.
Despite high stakes, Marshall remained steadfast in her refusal to compromise. The suggestions to alter her hair, wardrobe, and name were met with firm resistance. She chose integrity and personal identification over positional advancement.
Marshall highlights the trials she faced as a female and Black individual in a male and white-dominated industry. Despite these challenges, she stands tall, refusing to be swayed from her path.
Of significant note is the call from her company's CEO recognizing Marshall's uniqueness. He validated her authentic self and encouraged her stand. Not only did she maintain her integrity, but she also finally accepted the promotion without sacrificing any part of her identity.
In her ongoing fight against cancer, Cynt Marsh bravely reports on the trying yet transformative journey. Her latest phase of treatment, Round 8, follows a challenging Round 7, where she found comfort and rest despite adversity. Interestingly, Cynt's rest period during Round 7 presented a timely advantage as she was able to avert a potentially devastating garage fire.
Cynt affirms the positive role of prayer in her overall wellbeing. It has proven significant for her physical health and mental peace. Furthermore, the spiritual dimension of her life has been enriched by this solace-seeking habit, further cementing its integral place in her journey.
Amidst the tribulations, Cynt boldly embraces her visible cancer signs. She takes a stand against societal beauty standards by exposing her bald spots and wearing her hair short. Prioritizing her fight against cancer, Cynt has audaciously relegated her hair concerns.
Adoption comes with the vital responsibility of providing love, stability, and security. Prioritizing these aspects is essential in making adopted children feel truly cherished.
The community plays a crucial role in supporting those within it, especially in scenarios when biological parents are unable to provide for their children.
Noteworthy stories like Anthony's wish to adopt a girl seen on the news, Shirley's life transformative journey from a fragile newborn to a loving family member, and Rickey's happy reunion with Anthony are examples of impactful adoption tales.
Cynt gives an insight into her chemo experience, reflecting an optimistic turn as she moves along. Her latest round emerges less challenging following an omission of a medication wreaking havoc on her Central Nervous System. Her faith and support system fuel her perseverance, enabling her to partake in family and work-related ventures.
While undergoing chemo, Cynt talks about stages where she learned to manage side-effects through specific measures. The adverse effect of a medicine prompts her to adapt by wearing gloves, fluffy socks while coping with hot flashes, fatigue, and pain.
Cynt brings to light the phenomenon of 'chemo brain', a mental fog common among cancer patients undergoing chemo. Initially, she dismissed it, banking on her strong memory. However, it becomes increasingly apparent as she struggles with memory lapses. Her daughter Shirley steps up, reminding her of names, ensuring she remembers all who visit them.
A gripping tale unfolds about the significance of feeling loved and at home for one's self-esteem and community bonding. A parental delay at an after-school pickup led to the kids suffering from a sense of neglect. This incident served as an eye-opener for the parents.
In response, they took a pivotal decision - one of them had to step down from their demanding job to be there for their children. Subsequently, the father quit his job and started working from home, redefining his priorities where his kids came first.
The narrative accentuates the message that true masculinity lies in doing whatever it takes for the well-being of the family. By choosing his kids over his job, the father epitomized this principle.
Cynt Marshall, battling cancer, cherishes a unique encounter with Barack Obama during his campaign, praying for him in a memorable moment. Despite the struggles from her treatment, she again meets him and is moved by his supportive words.
Marshall's account takes us to the monthly party at the Chemo Clubhouse. Amidst her grueling round ten of her 'mean medicine' treatment, she invites someone grumpy to share the love radiating within the Clubhouse.
Amid her personal struggle, Marshall takes note of her dipping energy levels and the demanding end of the school year for her children. Yet through this, she is determined to conquer her illness, a drive beautifully reflected in her son's tattoo reading 'It's Gonna Be Okay'.
A California native with a misleading Birmingham accent, Marshall makes an unexpected move to North Carolina. A job opportunity takes her across the country, and despite her husband's illness, she relocates with her children, drawing upon her Southern roots.
Once in North Carolina, a unique friendship circle blossoms. An old college friend becomes part of this posse that shares her struggles, particularly her tough fight with cancer. Marshall recognizes these friendships as essential, reinforcing the need for a supportive community.
Despite grueling chemotherapy sessions, Marshall savors the outstanding achievements of her family. The ordinary events she previously overlooked now evoke immense joy, with little things like her daughter's educational successes becoming major milestones. It's these moments, such as her daughter's graduation, that provide a light in the otherwise challenging journey.
Work, although strenuous during treatment, serves a dual purpose for Marshall. It's not just about earning a livelihood, but also about benefiting from the emotional support of her workmates. This period enables her to acknowledge the invaluable prayerful sustenance from her loyal readers.
Battling cancer isn't easy, but it has brought some precious life lessons along the way. Marshall is profoundly thankful for the companionship and solidarity of those walking along this path with her. With every prayer for strength, she grows closer to a future where she regains her former life, looking eagerly towards her final session of chemotherapy.
In North Carolina, the author takes an interest in a local organization, the Children's Home Society, which assists kids in finding permanent homes. Brought to its board, she begins to consider how much more she might do. When the author's son, Anthony, stumbles onto a television report about foster children in the state, his insistent belief that they should adopt two of the featured children shakes the family's status quo. At first, the author tries to put off Anthony's idea, yet the kids' photos and their stories move her. She sees this as a divine hint and opts for adoption.
The author alters her plans to welcome the new additions, even discovering one kid is behind scholastically. Uncertainty doesn't deter her; she proceeds with the adoption. The family’s affection helps the new addition, Alicia, bloom within the family. Conversations about balanced family life and adaptation to new circumstances become common in the household, highlighting the part each member, new and old, has to play.
Cynthia finishes her final chemotherapy session with grace and optimism. Despite its side effects, she's filled with hope and strength. Backed by her faith in a divine plan, Cynthia believes she was selected to glorify God by fighting her bout with cancer.
Cynthia finds immense gratitude in the love and support of her family, friends, and colleagues who have journeyed alongside her. This help she received has been crucial on her voyage through adversity. Convinced that her condition has improved, Cynthia anticipates living life fully again.
Cynthia celebrates her triumphant end of chemotherapy in an atmosphere of music, dance, and warm embraces. She treasures each moment of this victory party at the Chemo Clubhouse. Eager to proceed forward, she is adamant about removing her chemo port, symbolizing her readiness to leave the cancer battle behind.
She grapples with her decision to go to her distant father's funeral. Aware that their shared genetics puts her at risk of colon cancer, the disease that took his life, she nonetheless honors memories over misgivings, aiming to show her children the worth of respect and forgiveness.
Additionally, understanding their adoption stories and the respect for their birth parents becomes a significant lesson for her kids. She champions the notion that birth parents deeply loved, despite not having the capacity to provide care.
Her father's passing and her own eventual diagnosis create a ripple effect of healthcare caution. She surges forth with a determined spirit, organizing screenings for her siblings as preventative measures against the impending doom of cancer.
Relieved and overjoyed, Marshall revels in his newest life chapter: being cancer-free. Grateful for the support and prayers during this arduous journey, he underscores the vitality of hope and positivity in battling this disease. His journey isn't over yet, with plans to remove his chemo port and maintain regular screenings to prevent recurrence.
A memorable trip to the Bahamas serves as Marshall's celebration of these milestones. Along for the ride was Willis, a significant silicone medical device from his treatment, that incited lively discussions and drew the attention of others. Their shared stories of familiarity with cancer added to the celebrative atmosphere.
Wrapped in the excitement of a boat excursion with companions, heartfelt stories of cancer experiences filled the air. Marking the highlight of the adventure, Marshall symbolically bid farewell to his cancer ordeal by casting Willis into the ocean, as part of a uniquely touching ceremony.
After surviving cancer, the author moved on, adopting a slower and more focused approach to her role as AT&T North Carolina's president.
Unexpectedly, she was needed at AT&T's corporate office in Dallas. Initially hesitant, she accepted and soon became senior vice president for AT&T.
A time-off post-retirement plan was derailed when she was invited to consult for Dow Chemical. An intended move back to North Carolina was reconsidered, and she felt pulled to stay in Dallas.
Then, Mark Cuban, owner of the Dallas Mavericks, knocked on her door. Despite being unsure, she realized the alignment between her skills and the organizational challenges faced by Cuban. The significant chapter closed with her accepting the new role as CEO of the Mavericks.
With her battle with cancer, the woman shares her story to uplift others. Her trials serve as a beacon of hope, encouraging faith to overcome daunting circumstances. Through this path, she touches numerous lives, almost as a silver lining in her cancer journey.
A staffer, dealing with his girlfriend's stage 4 colon cancer, approaches her and she willingly offers help. Their shared battles create a strong bond.
Surprisingly, the staff member passes away, leaving his wife grieving. But, stepping into this void, she lends great help, just like others were there during her own challenges.
She believes the tough moments hold a bigger purpose and she's uniquely chosen to confront them. It becomes clear that sometimes, personal hardship might just be a stepping stone to making a difference.
Destined For Greatness
Valuing The Journey
In 'You've Been Chosen', the focus is on life's important aspects. The significance of being alert, ready, and educated is highlighted. Serving others, laying out a plan, and an appreciation of the journey are also emphasized.Embracing Resilience
The book underscores the importance of resilience when dealing with life’s challenges. It encourages savoring the journey, facing obstacles with strength, and staying open to adjusting our paths when needed.Treasuring Life
The book's finale is a reminder of the importance of finding happiness, expressing gratitude, and owning responsibility. This is a lesson to remember for a fulfilling life journey.